Hello everyone!!
Yesterday i was talking to friend and she told that she had a very bad new to tell...she was really nervous, and then suddenly she started to cry....I tried to calm her down, but it was impossible...She was in shock.
After a few minutes, she could speak again and i ask her what the problem was...
She answered: I am pregnant.
After hearing that,i didnt know what to say!! It was a very strange situation. I wanted to congratulate her, but her face looked so sad, that i realized that wasn't a good idea.
For her, the worst problem of all was that she didn't know how to tell this new to her parents. I really understand her position because i know her parents!! They are extremly conservative and religious. I wouldn't dare to tell them that i am pregnant if i were her daughter...I feel sorry for her...
My friend is sure that if she tells her parents that she is going to have a baby, they will ask her to leave the house immediately!!
But, come on!!! She is already 23 years old!! She is an adult and she has the right to decide if she wants to have  baby!! I mean, my friend has already studied a professional career (actually she is a very good designer!!) and she works hard to ear her own money.
Her parents believe that if a woman wants to have a baby, she must be married with a good man, and stay at hoem to rise the children. I think the are completely mad!! Times have changed, the world is different now!! Women have the right to decide when to have a baby and how to rise them!
Anyway, My friend is now in a huge trouble because she doesn't want to marry her boyfriend. The only help that i could give her is a place to stay (there is an extra room at home!) so i told her that she could stay with all the time she need while she plans waht to do with her life. I really want to help her in this difficult time!!!